You need to be viewed as credible if you want to be highly effective and get the recognition, resources, and trust you deserve.
But you can’t be credible if you are invisible.
Humble people often tell me, “It’s the work that matters. it’s not authentic for me to promote myself and make myself visible.”
I can tell you that this line of thinking gets you into trouble if it makes you refuse to invest in your visibility.
I think you also need to question if you are really taking the high ground based on humility? Or are you just avoiding doing something you find uncomfortable? Be honest with yourself.
What I advise people is to build their brand and their credibility in way that is both doable and comfortable to them, even if they are shy or humble.
Here’s where I think many people get tripped up. I say, “Make sure your work is not invisible. Make sure others know what you doing and why it matters…”
But, for example, if your job is to complete an analysis and write up a report, when you finish the report, it would indeed be awkward to go around telling everybody, “Hey, I did this great analysis and produced this great report.” That was your job. That communication would come off as annoying self-promotion — as bragging.
But the other choice of completing the report, emailing it off, and starting the next one without communicating about it to anyone, is not the right thing to do either.
The trick to not bragging is to only share things of real value with others.
If you are wondering whether or not you should communicate about something you accomplished, ask yourself if it has real value.
If the answer is yes, here are some ideas for ways to communicate that will not sound like you are bragging in the least.
I wanted to call this out separately as this is such a great story.
This is from a group of three women who wanted to get visibility in a large corporation, but none were comfortable with self-promotion.
So they decided to work together. They all worked in different groups. So they agreed that each would talk up the other two across all the organizations, to get their names known and build credibility. “You know Mary B did something remarkable last month…”
It worked. Over the next two years they all got promotions!
If you want to build your brand without bragging, maintaining humility, and without being annoying, the trick is to make it about them, not about you.
This was originally published on Patty Azzarello’s Business Leadership Blog. Her latest book is Rise: How to be Really Successful at Work and LIKE Your Life.