The other day, I came across a quote from my friend Nadine Chammas that stopped me in my tracks:
You are not just the actor… You’re the writer, the director, and the lead.
It was one of those rare moments when a simple sentence sparks a deep reflection. I sat with those words for a while—and the more I thought about them, the more they echoed something I’ve always believed:
You are the CEO of You.
We all begin life with dreams, ambitions, and stories we hope to write. But as the years go by, many of us find ourselves stuck in roles we didn’t consciously choose—repeating lines that were written for us by someone else. Society, expectations, past experiences, fears, or just the inertia of everyday life.
So I started asking myself a question that I’ll now ask you:
How are you showing up each day?
Are you the actor, just performing what’s been written?
Or are you the director—calling the shots, shaping the scenes, deciding when to yell “Cut!” and when to say “Let’s go again, but this time with purpose”?
Let’s break this down.
Act One: The Actor’s Life
There’s nothing wrong with being the actor in your own story. In fact, we all need to play the part. We wake up, step into our roles—parent, leader, friend, partner, colleague—and do our best to deliver the lines.
But the danger is when we forget that we’re not only the actor. That we also have the ability to change the scene.
When you’re only the actor, you follow a script. You react to the lines thrown at you.
You wait for the director to give instructions. Your power lies in your performance—but the vision belongs to someone else.
Many of us live years—sometimes decades—this way.
Act Two: Becoming the Director
But imagine starting your day not as the actor… but as the director.
The director doesn’t wait for permission. The director sees the bigger picture. They choose the tone, the pace, the angles. They have a vision for how the story unfolds—even if that means calling for reshoots, rethinking the story arc, or rewriting the scene entirely.
In life, being the director means taking back your power. It means recognizing when something no longer fits your story and being bold enough to say:
“CUT. This isn’t working.”
It means stepping back and reframing how you approach your job, your relationships, your health, your goals. It’s realizing that if a scene doesn’t reflect who you are or where you’re headed, you can pivot.
Just like a great director, you don’t need all the answers on day one. You just need the courage to take creative control.
Act Three: Writing the Script
Being the director is powerful. But even more powerful? Being the writer.
Because the writer shapes the story from the start.
The writer dreams up possibilities. They determine the journey the character takes, the lessons learned, the setbacks overcome. They imagine the twists, the growth, the redemption arc.
You are that writer.
You can draft new beginnings at any time. The pen—or keyboard—is always in your hand.
Final Cut: Choosing the Role You Play
Now here’s the question that really matters: Who are you choosing to be?
The actor, performing. The director, shaping. The writer, creating. Or the lead, fully stepping into the role of your life.
If I’m being honest, there have been moments when I was simply acting—just going through the motions. Letting routines, external voices, or even fear run the show. But the most transformational shifts in my life happened when I remembered: I’m not just the talent on screen. I’m the one behind the lens. I can edit, rewrite, reshoot.
And so can you.
Your life is not a straight, polished blockbuster. It’s a documentary in progress. A series of scenes—some messy, some magical, some that never make the final cut. But all of them real. All of them yours.
And here’s the beautiful part:
You can always choose to reshoot. You can always say, “Let’s take that from the top.” You can always decide that the story isn’t over yet.
Credits: Where the Inspiration Began
I want to end where this reflection began—with a thank you to Nadine Chammas.
Her quote sparked something in me, and I hope it sparks something in you too. If you don’t follow her already, she’s a force of insight and light. Her words reminded me—and now maybe you—that we are not passive players in our lives. We are creators. Architects. Visionaries.
So the next time you start your day, ask yourself:
Am I going to just follow the script… Or am I going to direct the scene?
Lights. Camera. Your move.